Yeah, not a problem on the grace period.
Sorry to see you go, but I know where you're coming from too. I think I've fixed some of the things you mentioned (safe mode hasn't been used since the move to the current server, and the funky permissions are no longer required either) but other stuff (like the lack of FTP) just became an essential when dealing with the security issues on a free service like this. If you'd seen the FTP logs and the number of break-in attempts there... wow, is all I can say. Most everything I do, non-standard though it may be, is to keep things running smoothly and easily for the majority of people the majority of the time. That generally means people that have comparatively little technical experience, and thus things are biased towards them and the things they usually do (or forget to do.)
I also know you probably weren't too pleased with the downtime that kept cropping up... That was the most annoying, as I know it was a real problem for people, even though it was occurring because of the datacenter's networking infrastructure, and not though mismanagement on my part. Didn't help that they scheduled most of their repair time for late night in the US, and that made it mid-day for you.
As for the terms... I assume you mean the rules about pornographic stuff, since ROCR often involved nudity. Again, I understand and don't fault you for it. I'm just in a tricky place, because I have to balance things with a U.S.-centric sense of permissibility, as well as the fact that many users and viewers here are underage. If I'm wrong, and your talking about the newsbox requirement for having a domain name... well, I won't apologize, but I do understand. Once "xepher.net" isn't even on the address bar, that's the only way left for viewers to know a site is hosted here, and hopefully attract new users.
Anyway, this got longer than I expected, but suffice to say, I wish you the best, and I'll leave the site and stuff up for at least a couple months or so here, even if I don't hear from you. If you could just do me the favor and let me know when you actually don't need it anymore though, that'd be best. And if you feel like it, lemme know what specific problems you had with the service (or me.) Don't worry about hurt feelings or anything, just be honest. I'd like to know what to work on improving for the future.