(And it's also a way to help out your friends.)
Don't worry about living with your parents! There's a difference between living off you parents, and bumming off them. You're trying, and it'll work sometime. Look forward to your wedding, I'm sure it'll be beautiful.
You make so many people happy by giving them a chance with all the site hosting you do! You open up so many opportunities for artists of all sorts, and you give the world a chance to see all the beauty that is created by people.
Bummer about the job, though. I really wish I could help you out there. My dad always finds ways to perk up his job by just adding funny stuff. He actually made TPS cover sheets for all the reports at his work (y'know, from Office Space). Maybe give something like that a shot?